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Hey HoneyBee! I hope all is well. As always, I miss your face dearly and can't wait to update you on the life of Breezy Monreaux. You already know our time is special and you're about to get your life within five minutes of reading this blog. Have a seat sis and take a sip while you get this TEA!

You already know, attempting to date in 2019 has been a complete disaster for me. Like I'm about ready to slap on a chastity belt and become a nun because there's nothing out here honey. I'm so headstrong in my way of thinking and the values I want in a potential mate so settling isn't an option.
Bentley and I deserve the absolute best.

ASKING FOR A FRIEND 😂: What happens when everything you thought you wanted shows up out of the blue? Seriously this person could possibly be a damn unicorn cause their qualities are rare boo.

Meeting new people is always fun in the beginning. I told MY FRIEND that it's important for her to remember people usually send a representative the first 3 months when getting to know them so she shouldn't get too excited. Having someone to check in on you and good morning text is always appreciated but all you can do is take things one day at a time.

I think it's important to build a solid friendship before anything else. People often skip this step when meeting new people.They get so excited about the what if's and possibilities and before you know it, the relationship is headed for a dead end before it even starts.  You have to err on the side of caution to protect your feelings and guard your heart at all times. People are capable of doing some very mean and ugly things. Hurt feelings and heartbreak will hit you like a ton of bricks causing you to feel like your world is ending. I'll take a lonely night over repairing my heart any day! I mean that's what my friend said lol. I'll be sure to let y'all know how things go FOR HER...
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